The best years of your life are the ones in which you decide your problems are your own. You do not blame them on your mother, the ecology, or the president. You realize that you control your own destiny.
Nothing or nobody is worth to blame except God. But if even God is not interested in listening to your blame and complaints, there is nothing worthy of blame.
It is all in my hands, but i am not the one to be blamed either. It is God only.